“You come from Kentucky hillbillies,” she said with a sly smile. “See how far we’ve come,” she meant. My grandma and I talked for the first time. We’ve conversed and danced, smiled and held hands—but we’ve never talked. Not like adults. And so as the stories rolled from her tongue, she felt like those sages past, captivating my every thought. She wields my life in her history. She wields my life in her.
And so she went on, Mark Twain-ing tales of dirt floors, coal mines, fire roasted game, train jumping, rugged clothes, torn shoes, red hair, blue eyes, sweated brows, and the plural of love.
She told me I come from the civil war and hand-me-downs. That graduating high school wasn’t quite possible. She told me that the men went to war and the women loved them. “Everyone has a vice.” “Comedians today are crude.” “When you get old you know who you are and what you like.” “It’s nice to hear your voice.” “It’s nice to see you.” “You should visit more often.” “I’m sad to see you go…”
I realize that I prosper because I can. I hope because I am allowed to. I dream because I sleep well. I believe because I am comfortable. I live because they have. I live because she has. And so true are her words, even calling them wise would insult.